Archive for the ‘growing up’ Category

Remorse and the 5 year old

Often we doubt how we might be doing as a parent.  I find myself, that I use trial and error on many of the events that come my way.  The boys tend to throw me curve balls, and I often feel like I strike out.  There’s definitely not an adequate playbook out there.
Because of all [...]

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Peace in Forgiving

Forgiveness is something that I feel I learned more about well into my 20’s.  It’s not something that I was taught about, not at any length.  I always thought that forgiveness was something you did to let the other person off the hook.  Understandably, I did not like the idea of forgiving someone.  It wasn’t [...]

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The Apple Fell Far From the Tree (at least my side of the tree)

My oldest son continues to amaze me each and every day.  He definitely is quick and witty like his father.  I, unfortunately, cannot claim that this part of him is inherited from me. 
Last night, while Trick or Treating at our Mall, a lady responded to Bert’s “Trick or Treat,” by saying “Trick!  I want [...]

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“I Said ‘Hey! What’s Goin’ On?’”

Wow! It’s certainly been a while since I was on here actively posting.  My life has been busy with kids and work, and tutoring at the Elementary nearby.  I needed a “break” from blogging, so I took it.  I’m looking forward to posting more here. 
Some things that have happened during my break?
-Got more leverage…bought [...]

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Epiphany of Myself

I had an epiphany last night.
It’s one you probably already noticed.  Sometimes I am a slow learner, alright?
I have challenged myself to be more “modest.”  I don’t know if that describes exactly what I am shooting for, so let me describe what I want to accomplish.

not be as loud
not have an opinion on everything
not have [...]

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Mean Mommy Chronicles: Leverage

Bert recently received a Nintendo DS lite for his 5th birthday.  At first I was really hesitant because he’s 5, and that’s an expensive toy.  I tried to convince my husband that it was a bad idea.  Bert got a taste of the Nintendo DS at our workout facility.  It seems that all the boys [...]

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My Little Helper

My oldest, Bert is still at an age where he “enjoys” helping Mommy.  He wants to play with me all the time and sometimes I really don’t want to, so he accepts cleaning with me as playtime.  This works for me because I hate cleaning and am not the greatest player of 5 year old [...]

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“Mommy, Will You Play With Me?”

I have distinct memories of my mother while growing up.  I remember her reading, crocheting, quilting, cleaning, bowling or playing softball.  She was always present, and always there for me.  I don’t have many memories of playing with her though.  I was an only child, so I learned pretty early on that I had to [...]

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When Does School Start?

Is school in yet?  The last time I spoke of annoying kids, it was in reference to my older son, Bert, who will be 5 in exactly a week.  I took MTAE’s advice which was:  “Four year olds want attention…bad attention is still attention. Ignoring works best. If, by 38, they don’t stop with the [...]

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Mean Mommy Chronicles: To Heck With Her, I’m NOT Sitting on My Bed During Time Out!!

The other day my husband and I were in our living room watching TV when Bert came to us with a troubled look on his face.  We have a rule in our house.  The rule is that Mommy has bought you at least a dozen pair of underwear.  If you get your undies wet, and [...]

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Cool, Calm and Collected

Sometimes with my kids I jump from nagger to yeller so quickly, that asking nicely falls through the cracks.  Most of this most likely stems from being the main disciplinarian of our kids and also feeling like a single parent much of the time.  My husband is wonderful when he is home, but he does [...]

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Even Sesame Street Monsters Know When to Leave Their Mommy Alone

Do you ever get that anxious feeling…
You know, the one that makes you feel as though you have this ugly green monster with googly eyes in you?
Yesterday, for some reason…I felt this way. 
It couldn’t have been the fact that my boys had been fighting and yelling and screaming most of the day.
It couldn’t [...]

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Mean Mommy Chronicles: Whiny Boys Who Disobey Do Not Get Nature Walks

In this Mean Mommy episode, Bert and Ernie learn are told that it is not a good idea to jump on Mommy’s couches… Whether they learned anything or not remains to be seen.
07/26/2009
“Get off the couches, please.  We don’t jump on the couches,”  Mean Mommy said as she walked from the living room into her [...]

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The Big Brother Handbook

Is there a Big Brother handbook somewhere out there written in pictures that teaches the art of pestering your baby brother?  My son has obviously been to the library without me.  Ernie may go crazy from being bothered…and Mommy may go crazy from hearing Ernie’s squeals and cries as Bert bothers him some more. 
Some [...]

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My Little Tacos

Every night, when I put my boys to sleep, I sing them a silly song.
 
“Your my Taco, Your my Taco
T-A-C-O
Your my Taco,
I put cheese on you
and then I take a big bite
da-da-da!”
 
They love it!  When I tuck them in, I ask them what they want to be (Taco, enchilada, burrito, etc)…and what they want [...]

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